Duncan,
Good post. I read some years back a book called Games People Play. It describe this as a greeting ritual. For instance 2 men at work walk by and the conversation goes like this:
MAN 1: Hi How are you?
MAN 2: Good and you?
MAN 1: Can complain
MAN 2: That's good, Bye
MAN 1: Bye
They go there separate ways. Now they could do this for years every morning the same ritual. Same thing with J dubs, they have their rituals and as another J dub you go along with it. Have you notice though what happens if you break the ritual? They don't know what to do because you are not following the game. Example:
SISTER 1: Boy thing can't get any worse.
SISTER 2: Yeah you can say that again. We can only look forward to the paradise when Jehovah will make things better.
SISTER 1: Yes that's for sure.
But what would happen if SISTER 2 responded with, "What do you mean?? Everything couldn't be better. I just got a new job etc." SISTER 1 would not know how to reply because SISTER 2 did not follow the game plan.
You are so right it is just a way for them to escape reality. I know in the case of my mother she has been playing the game now for over 50 years and it would be very hard for her to change now. That would mean that she would have to omit that she has been wrong for the last 50 years and it would probably kill her. Anyway it is an interesting read.
Will
"I am quite sure now that often, very often, in matters concerning religion and politics a man's reasoning powers are not above the monkey's."
Mark Twain